From Struggle to Know-How: Why I Do This
On one of my last days at school, aged 16, one of my closest mates turned to the English teacher and said,
“Miss, I can’t read or write — and I’m about to leave school.”
She replied,
“It’s like a disease. It’ll come to you as you go through life.”
That statement stuck with me — not because it offered hope, but because it showed just how little understanding there was about how to teach. There was no disease, no label needed. What was missing was a proper method — one that works. Teachers just didn’t know how to help us learn.
A few months later, I joined the British Army. I did well for six years — but not through intelligence, just brute force and determination. After leaving, I hit a wall. Again and again. I wasn’t lazy. I wasn’t unwilling. I just didn’t know how to move forward. It was frustrating. It was dark. And it felt like I’d been left behind.
Then something changed: I learned how to learn.
Once I understood that, everything opened up. I now write books. I write computer code. I can read about anything and make sense of it. It’s not hard — in fact, it’s fun. It’s empowering. And it’s incredibly rewarding.
Now, I dedicate myself to helping others find that same switch, because once you know how to learn, you can become who you want to be.